Encouraging - One Year

As I was mowing the grass over the weekend, Krista placed Cole in front of the window to watch his daddy. With each pass his smile grew bigger, his mom took off a piece of his clothing (clearly naked pictures are better), and the mundane task of cutting the grass had never been more fun. While I was mowing, I began to reflect on all the different ways Cole’s first year had enriched our lives. At six months, Krista decided we would write letters to Cole at 6 months, and then every birthday until his 18th birthday. At 18, instead of a car or a new fabulous wardrobe for college, we’ll just give him a box full of letters; I’m sure he’ll be very grateful. Seriously though, as one who appreciates words of affirmation, I thought Krista’s idea was a very good one. I wanted to share my second letter to Cole with all of you. P.S. Please don’t tell Cole (or a future child(ren)) that we’re writing letters to them, Krista will disown me. Dear Cole,

Watching you grow and mature this past year has been the most amazing thing in my life. I never thought my heart would allow me to love this much. Your personality continues to unfold with each passing day. Your endless amount of joy evokes smiles from everyone you encounter. Simultaneously, I already am beginning to see your obstinate/intense side emerge; your laser-like focus allows nothing to deter you from your objective. I pray this resolve will serve you well in life; giving you the depth of character to stand firm in your beliefs and to traverse against the flow – “Do not conform any longer to the patterns of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – his good, pleasing, and perfect will” (Rom 12:2).

You are on this earth for a wonderful reason. God has a magnificent plan for you. You will undoubtedly face adversity, but God allows adversity to produce fire in our bones. All of my major growth has occurred in the valleys, in those times of heartache, pain and sorrow. Life does not always turn out the way we hope or plan, but “in his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps” (Prov 16:9). I have found life is abundantly easier and more fulfilling when you remain obedient and stay in God’s will. God’s plan will prevail – the easy or the hard way – so you might as well be obedient the first time. You are very fortunate to have such a wonderful and thoughtful mother; it was her idea to write these notes to you and I am confident these notes are just the beginning of endless ways we will demonstrate our love for you. Always remember, no matter how much your mother and I love you, God loves you more. It’s hard to believe, but it is true. We are so humbled and grateful to God for giving us the opportunity to help you grow in Him.

Love,
Dad