Monday, December 7, 2009

Encouraging - Comfort

The safest place for ships is in the harbor, but that’s not why ships were built - Anonymous

My thesis here is that the climate of contemporary America has become so chronically anxious that our society has gone into an emotional regression that is toxic to well-defined leadership. This regression, despite the plethora of self-help literature and the many well-intentioned human rights movements, is characterized principally by a devaluing and denigration of the well-differentiated self. It has lowered people’s pain thresholds, with the result that comfort is valued over the rewards of facing challenge, symptoms come in fads, and cures go in and out of style like clothing fashions.

Edwin H. Friedman, A Failure of Nerve: Leadership in the Age of the Quick Fix (Seabury Books, New York, NY: 2007), 53.